Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Today is the 24th November 2010 . Family problems have been giving me a hard time, excluding my own ones .

That's when i started to think of an escape route, not that i wanted to escape rather than solve, but it's just so troubling i don't wish to think of it for more than a minute .

Ever since i started working when i was sixteen years old, i wanted to move to the states, no matter which town or city . I just like the way they talk, how fluent one can get speaking English . English makes the world go round, isn't it ?

Recent issues had made me think back to what i wanted to do in life . Move to the states, get a job, and live by my own, but nonetheless, it's near impossible now because of the fact that i'm married, my husband signed his career to the Singapore government, and he's not quite a decent English speaking person .

So, i'm stuck back in Singapore, where i was born, where all the people are forever so 'kiasu', 'kiasi' and irritating .

Let me list down a couple of things that Singaporeans do which is extremely irritating, literally i work in an American steakhouse so what i'm about to say is every dining habits of locals .

- They act rich carrying branded purses/wallets/bags and try to save on every inch .
- Their meals are pair with water only .
- They always ask for card discounts/promotions when paying their bill .
- They won't hesitate to complain .
- They always want a big table when all they ordered are cheaper steaks or worse, sharing main courses .
- They get service attention by aggressively waving their hands and not saying 'excuse me', but 'escuse me', or worse, rising their voices calling out 'hello' .
- They never tip, only when we service talk them for half an hour as if we are real friends .
- They treat restaurants like Kopitiam leaving pork rib bones on the tables instead of the plates .
- They want the managers to serve them .
- When there's error on the food etc, they will jump to the error and ask for free dessert/drinks or instant discounts .
- When food/drink is on buffet-system, they will try sharing one order or when failed, will make the server replenish like a mad dog .

So many things i could go one having work so long at the steak house, i totally wanna disregard myself as a Singaporean . It's so embarrassing sometimes when these kinda things happen, and an American is sitting just across the table watching . I could literally punch whoever it is in the face if i'm allowed to . Too bad i can't .

I wish i could move to the states still, i know i'm having a little hope up, but hey, it's my life dream after all . It's pretty late now, shall hit the sack . Blog back in a bit when i get my day off . Ciao .

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Today is the 13th November 2010 . I just woke up from a good drink last night . Rounds of games that creates nothing more than laughter and stomach-aches for us . Shots after shots of neat Chivas, Guinness stout, and the last defeat of female team that drank up a horrible mix of Guinness, Hoegaarden, green tea and coke, one glass each . Nothing was left on the tables except empty glasses, the Chivas bottle and the remains of untouched mixers .

One place ends, 2 men down, we're left with 5 survivors . We went to Arab street for another round . This time, with only a bucket of five beers . The die were rolling, guesses were made, laughing till we roll back and forth for like the millionth time . We called it a day at 4am .

Of course, i can no longer drink much like that . Pockets emptied out to just coins . Lips so dry i felt i was left in the desert for a week . The bonding was worth the money though .

And now i have to think about how to manage my finances . Good lord .

Friday, November 05, 2010

Today is the 5th November 2010 . Here's a song i would like to share .


baby, oh yeah
baby, oh yeah

You don't ever bring no drama to the game
and my drama don't be scaring you away
you dont ever talk to much
exactly just enough
you know how and when and where and what to say

it aint like i gotta tell you your so fine (your so fine)
you been gettin complements since you was nine (damn)
its like your perfect (...)
a diamond in the rough
I knows you give me nothin else but love (love)

You are such a mad sexy cool girl
how does someone turn into you girl
how do you explain
what you do
what you say
how you be
how you play
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same
how you give
never hate
and you dont ever change
be consistantly that way
your a mad sexy cool girl, and i love you that way
baby, oohhhhh


you be ruling with a certain shade of cool (shade of cool)
i dont know no body half as fresh as you
i be checkin your behaviour
oh baby you got so much flavour
sometimes i wanna call you juicy fruit (juicy)

it aint like i gotta tell you your a star (your a star)
you be shining and be sparkling in the dark
girl you so perfect (...)
you my dimond in the rough
i know you give me nothin else but love


You are such a mad sexy cool girl
how does someone turn into you girl
how do you explain
what you do
what you say
how you be
how you play
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same
how you give
never hate
and you dont ever change
be consistantly that way
your a mad sexy cool girl, and i love you the same

(baby) how does someone
so beautiful
so approachable
none so adourable
(baby) guess your my kinda wonderful
my dream come true

You are such a mad sexy cool girl (sexy cool girl)
how does someone turn into you girl (into you girl)
how do you explain
what you do
what you say
how you be
how you play
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same
how you give
never hate
and you dont ever change
be consistantly that way
your a mad sexy cool girl

You are such a mad sexy cool girl (ohh baby yes you are)
how does someone turn into you girl (turn into you)
how do you explain
what you do
what you say
how you be
how you play (ooohh)
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same
how you give
never hate
and you dont ever change (never change)
be consistantly that way
your a mad sexy cool girl
(Your a mad sexy cool girl)

baby
how does someone turn into you girl
how do you explain
what you do
how you be
how you play
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same